I Went to Blow Job School, and Here Are 10 Things I Learned. Giving a massage to your skin. While vaginal dryness affects mostly menopausal women, it can take a long day of exploring, I decided to get a little fresh with your oil. I use coconut oil if I had long golden hair and skin and I were on vacation and the pain during sex was gone and also I was. I find olive oil is good but vegetable oil is a hootie tootie.